2010年9月16日星期四

The children into ordinary people: a father's advice 18

Read writer Chang is close to "Listen to Your Father", to see so: I will pray for your mother and look

forward to you live, perhaps alive and healthy, too many little

- Healthy and beautiful to be alive. If day after day, you really seem healthy and beautiful, we will have

a further desire: you better a little bit smarter than other children

, To a little bit, well ... ... And if the way a little bit down so hope, after all, one day we will

definitely ask you to be more moral than others, wise, accomplished

Even the rich and powerful. So I do not like greed, let me pause on the health of the word, back to my

grandmother said that the edges of the story.
I think, inevitably, people are greedy. When everyone came up to succeed, people who just want to be

ordinary people but seems to have an alternative a: Please let the children lose at the beginning

Running line.


1, maybe you do not have many opportunities to realize a dream, do not let the child replace you achieve,

remember, it is your dream, not the child's dream. If you have just a father

Mother, in fact, there is still time to realize their dreams, to make an example when a child.


2, squat down and the children speak.

I like talk to her, for kids, but also to give sufficient "respect", in other words, for children over 3

years of age, you will not be able to him as

"Child", but a relationship of equal treatment, and how equal it, stands equal before it.


3, when children play together, the problems between them to make their own to resolve.

They argue Ye Hao, fighting, but for me the things that are their parents do not doped in children between

the "conflict." Children do, kick hit over

, That will not hold a grudge, but 5 minutes to go and play, while adults often not the case at the same

time, adults should not be too much of "words" go "teach

"Children deal with this kind of thing can do is a positive guidance.


4, patient with their children play games, even if you really think that his game really boring.

She likes to hide and seek with me, no technical skills are not the hide. Also like to let me accompany

her to fight, but also no technical skills are not playing, but I like her game

The would also like to find me play. Indeed, "Parents are the children the best toys", so we should make

the child's big toy.


5, try and take turns reading with your child a classic story.

When the kids big time, you can try, feel meaningful things, this "fun" is actually a very good,

"influence" the child is an adult

Miniature, how do you doing things, doing things how he will.


6, with children visiting a bookstore every month, every two hours or more.


7, let the children pay a little effort, or wait for it to satisfy his desire, so he was easy to learn to

cherish.

Today's children do not lack "material conditions" are full of their sense of superiority, the lack of the

"frustration" or a "hard" training environment, this

Environment may not know what their children cherish.


8, in addition to praise, there must be punishment, but punishment is not equal to the simple stick of

education education.

The hard, personally think that punishment is not much, but "ruthless", that must have effect, or no

memory.

Praise and encouragement, or more recommended, but should not be unprincipled, "said Good," and should

encourage children to be "good."


9, when he shamelessly, never compromise.

Must not compromise, but when the elderly to more difficult. General, if only we three at home, relatively

easy to handle, because more unified thinking, a long time, children

Child know that does not make sense, easier to handle.


10 of the weakness of the parents to remember is that the greater the child, the more we ramble his fault,

he had just been born with the vision to appreciate his time.

More encouraging, we must encourage, something similar must not say (how can you be so stupid ah; others

will, how can you not do), dealt a serious blow to the people, transposition

Think about it, they tell you these things, do you think?


11, do not fear computers, people addicted to television far more than the computer, please let the

children away from TV, Live Life.

Thought "in depth", in fact, should be so many things to consider, should "ease" and not "block."


12, the latest from the primary school, be sure to make his points home.

Small domestic ,2-3 years of age on it, such as wiping toys, what the children prefer to do it, a

"recognized" feeling, my son always took a big drag

Cloth or a small rag, rub everywhere.


13, Do not care about the kids grades start to care whether he likes school.

Results do not mean anything, first, concerned about his "interest", whether they would like at this

school, and for the results in terms of it, people feel more valued is

First, continued to progress (every time), and second, efforts to focus and reflect on the "wrong"

questions.


14, not on the Mathematical Olympiad, where the best at training days with the slogan toss ordinary

people.

Personal point of view, the daily lot of class, piano class, dance classes, kickboxing classes, and so on

it, Enough is enough, then a happy childhood, and the children of this city

Has been early to the "childhood" strangled (3 years to kindergarten), happy and healthy and grow, to

develop a good habit than anything else.

15, playing chess, swimming, cycling, playing to upgrade, K songs, these ordinary people are playing the

project can teach him early.


16, for his foster a lifelong interest, whether refined or popular, whether public or small, including

music, art, literature, writing, stamp collecting, by hand

These are good, but please do not simply for Grading or further studies to learn.

These are indeed very important, otherwise, and others can not "communicate" that he will be relatively

boring, and this is accompanied by boring a long time, which should develop from an early age

.

17, so he insists that everyone can participate in sports, badminton, table tennis, basketball, football,

volleyball are all good.

Childhood physical activity, it is important to guide to "like" sports, the body is the capital of the

revolution; Moreover, these sports have been times throughout our students

, Popular use.


18, love him, have the same love for his father (mother), never. He will be remembered also learn to love

his wife and children.

Similarly, treatment of the elderly, too, loved his grandparents, grandma grandpa, he would remember the

future, take good care of their parents.


To add a few:

A unity of thinking, especially the elderly with children at home when we thought not uniform, the child

is difficult to education.
2, teach him to fish, rather than to teach him to fish, teach him many ways of doing things, rather than

take the initiative to help to do a good job, multi-boot, one not, again, straight

To do a good job.
3, sustained perseverance, they treat their children to be more "patient."
4, that we will agree what we should do, do not easily agree.

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